Sunday, May 29, 2016

Why blame?

The idea about blaming can be rooted down to the time of Adam and Eve. Adam told God as narrated in Gen 3:12 that Eve was the cause of his disobedience. Oh! Eve, why did you do this to Adam? If you had been contented, we wouldn’t have had our own present predicament. It was through your failure that we are suffering now. We suffer for food, shelter, wisdom, knowledge. The competitive nature of life has ended the weaklings in a mess. The winners of life’s competition are enjoying while the losers are suffering. Why are we in the suffering end? The rich are getting richer and the people are getting poorer.


These are everyday questions that rolls in our mind especially when that salary has not been paid, when that visa could not be gotten, when it is the third or fourth time we are writing that exam. But why do we keep on blaming. Who do we blame for our own problem? Who is the cause of our problem? Can’t we focus only on moving forward? If we lose a job, can’t we focus on getting a better one? If we make a loss in business, can’t we re-strategize and correct our errors?

Before man was made, God gave him ingenuity. Man has the power to correct errors. He could optimize. And also, he could manage his situation. But we live in a world of blame. People blame others for the cause of their problem. They fail to correct the situation. They use phrases like “if no be say”, “had I known”, “na him cause am”. But they fail to use phrases like "wetin we go do?”, “how can we help?”. As for me I will prefer to hear “dis na my suggestion”, “I don dey do am”, “e no hard me do”. When we blame, an unknown author says that we start seeing the difficult part in every opportunity that comes by but when we don’t we look for the opportunity in every difficult situation. And when we see this opportunity, we shouldn’t fail to act quickly. We should seize the opportunity.


Don’t be surprised, man still trace the cause of their present sorrows to Eve. But what if Adam did not follow her footsteps? If I were to blame, I would blame nobody but Adam. But I am not a blamer. I have always trained myself not to be one. I have always try to rise when I fall. To speak when I am dumb. To laugh when I cry. To live when I die. I become hopeful. I begin to look for every possible solution and I fail not to lose hope.
That things are not going well should not make us put the blame on others. That we are poor does not mean we cannot become rich. Those who are rich were once poor and those who are poor were once rich. That is the mystery of life. The words of TD Jakes says “let it go”.
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to…
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains...
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. 
Then let’s stop blaming. Let us see every difficult opportunity as a test.
Now my world. Things are going wrong. Everything in a mess. Meaning people have failed to do what they are supposed to do. The fact that the fall of oil is affecting us gets everyone stained. It means we have faulted in our own little way. The reason for our present sorrows is that the police has failed to protect, the soldier is afraid to fight, the priest is lazy to pray, the student has failed to learn, the farmer failed to farm, and the country saw no need for diversification. We already know this. What hope do we have in a world of blame?

Why do we start blaming the government as if we have governed well? Why do we start blaming our parent as if we have parented well? Why do we start blaming the society as if we are not part of it?
If we’ve got an answer to the present questions, it means we are beginning to see the cause of our problems. Then if we take urgent steps to solve this problem then we shall be seeing some improvement in our world. A solution means the student is learning, the scientist is discovering, the priest is praying, and everybody is doing his or her assignment effectively without complain and blaming others.
A ghetto musician African China sang “Mr. Governor govern us well, Mr. Senator senate us well, Mr. Police police well well…”
Not having blame saves time for solutions. It is better to study the problem than to blame. When we study problems, we proffer solutions. Let’s blame ourselves neither because no one is error-free.

Why do we blame when there is no light?
Why do we blame when people die?
Why do we blame when there is no love?
Why do we blame our enemies?
A blameless world would be best, why blame then?

Aguri M. C.

Saturday, May 28, 2016

The Role of our Body in Prayer


When we put our petitions before God, how close are we to him as we pray? How do we create a greater attention?
Our body:
The body is one’s physical being. WordWeb dictionary defines it as the entire structure of a human being (Lewis, 2012). In the human self as a whole, the body is a structure visible to us as Pope John Paul II says thus “The body, and it alone, is capable of making visible what is invisible, the spiritual and divine. It was created to transfer into the visible reality of the world, the invisible mystery hidden in God from time immemorial, and thus to be a sign of it” (Feb 20, 1980). So cool to know that our body has a purpose in prayer and worship.
The human body is a mystery made visible. Remember that in his image God made man. And then he created it for a purpose. It is therefore important for us to know this role especially in our personal prayer life and also in the liturgy.
Prayer:
And now prayer. Prayer as defined by CCC (2697) is the life of the new heart. At every point in prayer, the one involved brings him/herself anew before God in communion with Him. This new self that is presented at every prayer does not involve the spiritual being alone because the body and soul are one, they are inseparable. At such it involves our entire being.
While praying the body is made to participate as prayer ought to animate us at every moment and so body disposition is meant to be observed. CCC (2702, 2703) tells us that we are body and spirit and we experience the need to translate our feelings externally and this renders God that perfect homage which is due. So when we pray, let the need to express this body prayer not be denied. Remember our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. Therefore the need to commune with God this temple of one’s entire being. “…You are not your own…Therefore honor God with your body” (1 Cor. 6). Using our entire being in prayer helps us to pray with greater attentiveness (USCCB, 2010).
The Human body shares in the dignity of “the image of God”: it is a human body precisely because it is animated by a spiritual soul, and it is the whole human person that is intended to become, in the body of Christ, a temple of the Spirit. (CCC 364)
                When you pray how do you dispose yourself? Why do we kneel or genuflect? Why do we fold our palms? Do we sit or stand and pray? Why all these body postures and gestures, do they really matter?



Body Prayer
Pease (1988) in his book ‘Body Language’ writes that one can learn how to tell what language a person was speaking, simply by watching his gestures. In the same manner, when praying gestures can as well tell how dispose or ready one is to receive the graces prayed for.
Fr. Sixtus will say ‘open your palms as you kneel while the priest intercedes and prays for you before God’s altar’. He says this during the mass for the people. This sign shows a good disposition and keenness to receive God’s blessings. When praying in this way, one is saying “Here I am Lord presenting myself to you in humility, I wish to receive your blessings, look upon me Lord your humble servant”. In this position, a sacrifice to God is offered like the Psalmist says “My prayer rise like incense, my hands like an evening sacrifice” (Cf. Psalm 141:2).
The sign, gesture or posture presented in prayer does not only show readiness but also portray humility. Since we can’t display arrogance before our parents or superiors, then let’s show some elements of humility before God in prayer. And one’s body posture has a role to play in this regard. Your body’s posture, your speech, your song, your hearing, your senses of smell and taste, and your hand motions change how you listen to the Lord and how you respond (Harell, 2011).
During the liturgy different postures are assumed- standing, kneeling, sitting- and one is also invited to make a variety of gestures. These postures and gestures are not merely ceremonial. They have profound meaning and, when done with understanding, can enhance our participation in the liturgy so also our personal prayer life because Pope Benedict XVI, in his book “Spirit of the Liturgy” said: “The body has a place within the Divine worship of the Word made flesh, and it is expressed liturgically in a certain discipline of the body, in gestures that have developed out of the liturgy’s inner demands…”
Like the traditional Catholic saying goes; if you need to understand the black, read the words in red (Catholic Dictionary 2010). In other words to understand the prayers in the Sacramentary, the rubrics of church worship is followed liturgically. This instructions are for the proper conduct of the Mass or other liturgical service. One of such rubric is seen in the Book of Blessings.
Bowing
            We bow with our heads to signify reverence, respect, gratitude and submission. In the church occasions where we bow are during the creed at the words that commemorate the Incarnation, we bow also to the crucifix, at the name of Jesus, Mary and the Three Persons of the Trinity to give respect and reverence to God.
            Having the above in mind, when we go forward to receive Holy Communion, we make a bow of the head as a sign of reverence prior to reception the person whom we are about to receive; the person of our Lord Jesus Christ. Just like the Magi to the child Jesus, “…they bowed down and worshiped Him…” (Matt. 2:11)
            If we don’t bow for God then who else do we bow to? The Devil knew the essence of bowing when he said to Jesus “All this I will give you if you will bow down and worship me” (Matt. 4:9). Using our head to bow shows a great sign of worship.
The Praying hands
            The Praying hand is a gesture in which the hands are clasped or folded together before the heart. Such a prayer gesture is a symbol of obedience, submission, sincerity and repentance. When we go forward with clasped hands to receive the Lord in the Holy Eucharist, we are like the people in St. Paul’s letter to Timothy; ‘In every church service I want men to pray, men who are dedicated to God and can lift up their hands in prayer without anger or argument.’(I Timothy 2:8)
            What happens when praying or meditating with clasped or folded hands? Such a posture calms the mind. It is often believed Mantises are known for sitting back on their rear appendages and holding their stout front pair of appendages together in an attitude reminiscent of prayer: little wonder they are referred to as praying mantis. If the praying hand gesture cannot be learned from anywhere then we could learn it from this wonder creature - the praying mantis.
Akin (2015) advised that one can pray in whatever posture one feels is most conducive to prayer if one is engaging in private, non-liturgical prayer. However, when one is praying in a liturgical celebration, such as Mass, there are rules to be followed. Such rules is that “a minister who is a priest or deacon says the prayer of blessing with hands outstretched; a lay minister says the prayer with hands joined" (BB, 1999).
Standing
Standing is a sign of respect and honor, so we stand as the celebrant who represents Christ enters and leaves the assembly (USCCB, 2010), the person of the priest. Also, the Priest stands during the Eucharistic Prayer as he acts in the person of Christ in what the CCC 1385 calls “so great and so loyal a moment”. As seen in the scriptures Revelations 7:9 “…They were from every race, tribe, nation and language, and they stood in front of the throne and of the Lamb…” and verse 15 says “That is why they stand before God’s throne… He who sits on the throne will protect them…” This shows that the congregation is privilege to stand before our God who sits on the throne. ” Little wonder in the Eucharistic prayer the priest prays to God saying “We thank you for counting us worthy to stand in your presence and serve you.”
Also, Hannah in 1 Samuel 1:26 stood and prayed. She said to Eli “…I am the woman you saw standing here, praying to the LORD”
Standing up for Jesus during the procession, proclamation of the Gospel, presentation of gifts, intercessory prayers during the mass has been understood from the earliest days of the Church as the posture of those who have risen with Christ and seek the things that are above (USCCB, 2010). It also shows how we anticipate that the Father will hear and answer the petitions we bring with confidence before Him.

The Gentle Knees
            The knees were made for kneeling, no wonder its nature. In the early Church, kneeling signified penance, while in the middle age and recent time this posture signifies homage and adoration respectively. Bishop Thomas wrote that knees symbolize both strength and humility. He also added that what we do with our knees give evidence of what we believe in our heart and this include kneeling down beside a bed of a dying person, genuflecting before Christ in the Blessed Sacrament. When we do this, our knees help us to express what we believe.
According to Abba Apollo, a desert father who lived about 1,700 years ago, the devil has no knees; he cannot kneel; he cannot adore; he cannot pray; he can only look down on his nose in contempt. Being unwilling to bend the knee at the name of Jesus is the essence of evil (Cf. Is. 45:23, Rom 14:11). But when we kneel at Jesus’ name, when we bow in the service of others, and when we bend the knee in adoration, we are following in the footstep of the Magi, we are imitating Blessed Mother Teresa of Calcutta, St. Maximillian Kolbe, and all the saints and angels in heaven. “Come, let us bow down and worship. Let us kneel before the Lord who made us.” (Olmsted, 2015)
            “Then He went off from them about the distance of a stone’s throw and knelt down and pray.” (Luke 22:41). The psalmist says in Psalm 95:6 “O come, let us worship and bow down: let us knee before the LORD our maker”. From 2nd Chronicles 6:13; “…and kneeled down upon his knees before all the congregation of Isreal…”
            Also, kneeling practice is illustrated in Daniel 6:10 “opening the windows in his upper chamber towards Jerusalem, he knelt down three times a day, and adored, and gave thanks before his God, as he had been accustomed to do before”. Of Christ great prayer for His disciples and for His Church it was written that “lifting up his eyes to heaven, he said”, etc. John 17:1; but of His Agony in the Garden of Gethsemani: “kneeling down, he prayed” (Luke 22:41).
            Although, it is understood that some of the elderly and disabled will not be able to kneel but those excluded from this group are expected to as kneeling assists our whole person to be attentive to the Lord, to surrender to His will, to lift our soul and our voices in worship.
Conclusion
Some may feel to tag this piece of writing as “secrets of great worship”. They are secrets indeed. In every day life, we worship, we pray. But only few of us engage in “great worship”.
As the adage goes “He who sings prays twice as well.” Whenever I sing too, clap, dance and move my body, it should be to the glory of God. “By its very nature song has both an individual and a communal dimension. Thus, it is no wonder that singing together in church expresses so well the sacramental presence of God to his people” (USCCB, Sing to the Lord, no. 2).
Remember the words of Fr. Sixtus: ‘The countenance of somebody can be due to one’s inner disposition.’ The inner mind therefore should be reflected outside, like we are letting the spirit flow.
Let us be disposed for God and He will in turn be disposed for us. It is my prayer that as we make our body participate in the worship of God in the liturgy and in our private prayers, we pray that He will make us worship Him in truth and in spirit. Amen.


Aguri M. C.

Friday, May 27, 2016

Alcohol or wine?

And we jumped into argument when I politely asked him if he needed soft drink or something else. His reply was so odd to me. He said “Do I look like someone who takes alcohol?” As if he knew that I will be a weakling during the argument, I started giving him some facts. And he said “I will get back to you” at the end of the short conversation we had. I wish he could read the remaining part in this article because I promise to give him answers from the scriptures.

Now the topic of our argument “The bible said wine.” It was now left for me to tell him that wine and alcohol is not far-fetched. I started telling him that wine is alcohol and “nonalcoholic wine” does not exist in itself but as a “juice” instead. I can’t believe that there are some people in this world who still do not believe that the bible is not against wine or alcohol when taken appropriately. In short let me believe that this man thinks that the bible supports the intake of wine. But while on earth will he not know that that wine in the bible being referred to has alcoholic content.
Now what is “Wine”?
Wine according to Oxford dictionary of Current English means “an alcoholic drink made from fermented grape juice”. It also defined it as “a fermented alcoholic drink made from other fruits or plant”, meaning Palm wine (from nature) is an alcohol drink. And alcohol in itself are drinks such as wine, beer, and spirit. Chemically, alcohol is any organic compound containing a group –OH. It could also be that colourless flammable liquid which is the ingredient that gives drinks such as wine, beer, and spirits their intoxicating effect.
So now what are we now saying?
I just hope he will not need a ‘native doctor’ to tell him that wine is alcoholic and it’s therefore an alcohol. The two daughters of Lot made their father drink wine and lay with him in Gen 19:32. How on earth will grape juice get someone drunk as he claimed the wine in the bible is not the intoxicating alcohol? That is by the way “sha”. Then the next argument. What does the bible says about wine?
Jim Blackburn in his article “Got Wine?” argued that Jesus drank wine. He said “In fact, he drank wine - the fermented kind, not grape juice, as some will claim – and apparently he drank a fair amount of it”. He defended his claim in Luke 7:34. In that verse Jesus was accused of being a drunk. Or is it the popular verse 1 Tim 5:3 which indicates that wine (alcohol) has health benefits.
In fact the book of Genesis shows that everything that God made was good. Gen 1:25. So why will God create that (wine) which is not good? I think we ourselves has made the good things turned out to be bad due to the way in which it was used or exploited. Let us apply temperance in anything we enjoy on earth whether alcohol, food, money etc.
My conclusion as seen from the scriptures is that drinking in itself is no sin but excessive drinking should not be encouraged. That is where temperance comes in. Like the CCC puts it as stated by Jim “The virtue of temperance disposes us to avoid every kind of excess: the abuse of food, alcohol, tobacco, or medicine. Those incur grave guilt who by drunkenness or a love of speed, endanger their own and others’ safety on the road, at sea, or in the air” (CCC 2290)
Note: CCC is the Catechism of the Catholic Church.

Aguri M. C.

Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Lord of the World

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